Darling does not want a child, how do?
Darling Does Not Want A Child, what do I do?
I met him two years ago. He came and we started living together and the life was very hard than I had expected before. We are planning to get married next year but the idea of having a child has brought a lot of controversy.
He really don’t want us to have a kid. He said that if a child is mandatory, he can give up on such a marriage. This has created a lot of tension. I’m so much worried.
We had a very long discussion but still couldn’t agree. He said he can’t change his mind. I really don’t know what to do because I do love this guy and I don’t wanna lose him but I still need a child. I can’t stay a life without a kid.
Should I give up on this guy or should I try to open up his heart? I really don’t know what to do. I’m just confused.
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I’m really sorry for such a difficult situation. It is important to note that children cements marriage. Children are sources of happiness. This is a serious problem in your marriage. It is good to sit and come up with a solution if you still love the guy. If the guy really loves you, you should appreciate the child.
Can you really save a marriage that is fizzling out? When you first fall in love and get married, the last thing you would ever think about is if your marriage will fall apart.
You have your newfound love and you feel that your relationship will last forever. Unfortunately, things do not always happen that way.
If left unfixed, a once happy marriage could dwindle down to a dull relationship with your spouse. Worse yet, it could lead into an unforeseen divorce on the horizon.
Yes, it is certainly possible to save your marriage. It will
certainly take some time and a lot of effort, but your hard work will greatly pay off in the end.
One of the last phases the marriage goes through comes after having children. In a family that has children, it is common for parents to put their children first before their spouse.
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Of course arrangements need to be made beforehand to hire a sitter to care for the kids. If you cannot find a sitter, you can reschedule your date night for the weekend.
Your kids could then go over to a friends house to spend the night. This would give you both the entire evening to rekindle that flame and keep things fired up in the relationship. That roaring fire can surely help save your marriage over an icy cold cocktail at your favorite restaurant or lounge.
Save your marriage by showing your partner that you really mean it and you really care. They will love and appreciate you more for it!