Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married
Now, unmarried cohabitation has become a normal phenomenon, and if the two are “married for cohabitation,” then the equivalent of trial marriage and such cohabitation is related to a lifetime of happiness. So in the cohabitation stage, women need to pay attention to the most should be some of the details, so as not to “marry the wrong person.”
i) Both Parents
If he is still like a child by his parents Chong Chong, and you want them to coax him, but why you are not so full of maternity, and he also used to enjoy the son’s treatment, you will have a lot of friction. If both parents get along harmoniously, even the surface of harmony cannot do, if you do not like his parents, he also critical of your parents will also be hidden in the future happiness.
ii) Holidays- how to spend
If you like to sleep late, he loved to get up early to pack the house, but also to non-you can not quarrel, quarrel would be difficult to avoid. On the other hand, if the other party indecisive, always set down, the weekend together with what the two, or, on the contrary, still decided to do something brutal, will produce unhappy.
But this is better resolved; the two sides can set rules, such as girls Saturday, Sunday is the day the boys and girls to date with girls as a priority, always listen to the girls. Vice versa. Of course, that relatively easy to solve the two sides have to be able to exercise restraint, as long as one party is a poor self-control ability, this is the inevitable factor of future quarrel.
iii) about your child’s education whether consensus; Marriage must focus on this topic, repeatedly depth and repeated discussions, good to know whether the other direction is consistent with their ideas. Such as whether a child, a child; a spoon-fed education, a hope to develop personality and so on. You know, this problem does not look great, but it can become two people.
Marriage must focus on this topic, repeatedly depth and repeated discussions, good to know whether the other direction is consistent with their ideas. Such as whether a child, a child; a spoon-fed education, a hope to develop personality and so on. You know, this problem does not look great, but it can become two people are not the essential harmonious factor, more importantly, the child will be implicated, left nor right is not caught between the two of you.
Such a child grow up in the environment, will become weak and confused in the future social life, easy to produce a sense of confusion for the future. For children, must also be in the marriage of this topic numerous discussions, until a consensus. Otherwise, it will be at least three people suffering the beginning.
iv) with the money of the road; A savings, a waste, such as when you receive monthly utility bills, possible savings that side will complain: “?? Why always forget to turn off the lights. Why has there been any open water when brushing your teeth,” a favorite of To buy, and the other always buy bargain … … with the money in different ways to purchase things contains the different values of the whole. Unless there is a party can accommodate this difference, of course, there are a lot of people before marriage is a waste of stingy after marriage or small affair married generous.
v) Family; In fact, not only the question who do much of the housework, but also should be noted that some of the chores : such a love abandonment, almost all linked to the same distance between a hanger and hanger; what have received the love, and the other from the Journal Finished on when the garbage disposal; even small to squeeze the different toothpaste, plot small, such details, often become a big noise of the fuse.
Note that the other details of life also include: TV remote control right; diet (noise during the meal; if excessive drinking; overnight or continue to eat vegetables is drained; especially now that more and more people buy a car, but also appears a new problem: when you drive a car, he is not always come in to give guidance ( long-winded ) ? He still wants you to follow his route? It appears that learning to remain silent inside the man, is now more and rarer.
vi) the cause of the common advance and retreat; Can have their own career, but in their efforts to work hard at the same time, no matter how busy, we must care about each other’s career progress, let him feel that you are a partner with him through thick and thin.
In addition, many women once the love of spring breeze, it is easy for the cause and work on the aggressive. Over time, will make you run around with the cohabitation in the cause of her boyfriend more and more distance, this is to give him a good reason for divorce after the derailment.
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vii)learn to love yourself; Women are born to love and men alive, so once caught in love and marriage, can not wait to wait to pay all their own, including life. Ever since all the actions of love are wholeheartedly placed in the family and the men and children, but forget to love yourself. But will not like their women, but also the most vulnerable to frustration in the emotional.
So, when a man is not at home, to do beauty, and 35 Gui honey tea chat, have their social circles, have their hobbies, so he can always feel that you are not the kind of death he would not live of the woman. In this way, your charm will be retained in his heart for a long time; he wants to love you is immune.